enough of death, enough of bloodshed!

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sunriseparabellum
mr-hearts

Don't get me wrong self preservation is incredibly important and you should not be stretching yourself thin for the sake of others but some of you people have seen the posts talking about putting yourself first and have become just downright miserable and selfish people. No you are not obligated to get run ragged for the sake of helping other people but like. You should say please and thank you. You should open the door for people if you're able. You should help your loved ones if they want/need help with something that really Won't be that strenuous for you. So many of you complain about being lonely or miserable or having no friends and sometimes its because you put yourself first to an abrasive and unkind degree

lobstersinmyhouse
genderqueerpositivity

I think that 2023 is a good time for many of us, and allies in particular, to practice again the dying art of minding our own fucking business when it comes to the identities and lives of other people.

You see someone from one of your classes in a public place with a different gender presentation/expression than they typically have? Mind your own business.

You discover that one of your coworkers is in a same gender relationship, but they aren't out at work? Not your place to share that information in the workplace.

You notice that your neighbor in a red state takes a road trip across state lines with their transgender child every 3-6 months? No you fucking didn't.

You overhear students in your classroom using a different name and different pronouns for one student than you are used to using? If you live in a state hostile to trans rights, pretend that you don't know anything about this and report nothing.

You suspect that an acquaintance of yours might be gay, but they deny it when asked directly? Leave them the fuck alone.

One of your friends refuses to publicly label their sexuality? Good for them, you aren't entitled to that information anyway.

Your sibling comes out to you as questioning, but isn't comfortable sharing that with your parents yet? Keep your fucking mouth shut.

Don't out people; coming out is a personal choice not a moral obligation. Don't demand personal information about other people's sexuality or sex lives. You aren't entitled to information about anyone's gender identity, assigned gender at birth, or transition.

Bring back privacy, allow people to have control over the information that is shared about them publicly; it might save their job, their housing, their parental rights and their child's safety, or even save lives.

agentmika
headspace-hotel

Fuck self-sufficiency. It's time for Interdependence. Always offer help and always accept it. Cook meals for the people you love. Grow fruits and vegetables and give them to your neighbors. The "independent" person is merely the perfect version of a Consumer, eating directly from the palms of Corporation. Fuck self-sufficiency. Need one another.

friendagenda

blending this with the common cruelty of your average person feels a little dangerous lol. people just aren't nice anymore.

headspace-hotel

Then we must learn how again.

from experience if you put yourself out there as a helpful and generous person people will accept the help you offer your average person isnt actually as cruel as you may think if you treat them with kindness they will often return the favor